If one thought keeps you awake at night, it might be the following: Who am I? What do I want to do with my life? It is of high importance that you think about these matters and search for clarity. The second in which you know your true self is the moment when you begin to see infinite possibilities.
In order to get to know yourself, it is essential to spend some quality time with yourself. Go for a long walk. Detox in a forest. Just do something without distractions—take neither your phone nor your headphones with you. Only then will you be forced to cope with your thoughts and learn from them. Try to be honest with yourself and reflect deeply. Moreover, it is necessary to jump into cold water from time to time. Do what you deem impossible! Greet unknown situations with an eager smile. Thus, you will see where your boundaries lie.
In a society where everybody is in a permanent hurry, where the joy in simple things is lost, it is so important to find your own pace. Don’t let others stress you. Find joy and gratitude in simplicity. And finally, don’t let the shadow of your virtual alter ego obscure your true identity. The majority of time spent on your phone is completely worthless. By doomscrolling for hours on end, you lose your ability to think. Read books instead—you might find more joy in reading than you think.
Personally, reading helped me a lot to get to know myself better. I learned a great deal about myself while reading and reflecting on books. They incorporate ancient wisdom and philosophy, which can serve as guidelines. Great books on this subject include:
- The Art of War by Sun Tzu — originally about military strategy, but surprisingly applicable to everyday situations. (https://amzn.to/4suR46h)
- Meditations by Marcus Aurelius — filled with Stoic wisdom and timeless reflections on life. (https://amzn.to/4d8Tq6r)
- The Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien — a story in which you may find parts of yourself reflected in one of the characters. (https://amzn.to/4rmbyxm)
Hereby, I encourage you to commence the search for your true self.
Thank you for reading!









